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Team Conversation Guide

A fifteen-minute agenda for opening a team meeting with a question worth answering together.

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Most team meetings open with logistics. This is a fifteen-minute alternative: one question, answered by everyone, before the agenda begins. Run it weekly or monthly. It works because it is short and because it is the same every time.

Minutes 0–2: Set the frame

Say what this is and what it is not. "We are going to spend fifteen minutes on one question. There is nothing to solve and no follow-up assigned." People participate honestly when nothing is at stake.

Minutes 2–4: Ask one question

Choose one and read it aloud. Give everyone sixty seconds of silence to think before anyone speaks.

  • What is something we are doing well that we never talk about?
  • Where are we making things harder than they need to be?
  • What has changed for us in the last month that we have not acknowledged?
  • What would you want a new teammate to understand about how we work?
  • What is one thing you need from this team that you have not asked for?

Minutes 4–12: Go around

Everyone answers, in order, no cross-talk. Short answers are fine. Passing is fine. The order matters — going around removes the burden of deciding whether to speak.

As the leader, answer last. If you answer first, you set the ceiling for honesty.

Minutes 12–15: Name what you heard

Reflect back two or three themes without resolving them. "I heard three people mention handoffs." Then stop. If something needs action, it will find its way to the agenda on its own.

A team that talks about how it works, works better. Fifteen minutes is enough to start.

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